You have demonstrated that the sensor is working.......I doubt if you need to go further there, except for DeOxing it ang getting the cable plugged in.
As a next step after its connected.....I would locate those 2 wires at the cpu plug and see if they still read at that end.
We have proved (I think) that the ecu has the ability to switch on the fan relay.
I think that once we have verifiable battery voltage (new batt?) we are close to starting it up for a test.
As I'm not up to date on the piping arrangement, I can't say exactly, but on my bike, I think I would remove the fill cap and squeeze the hoses to work any air out, then run a test with that cap off.
Perhaps you can borrow an actual mercury thermometer to insert in the coolant there?
Since the fan is supposed to start at 221 deg F.......you may not be able to get it to run with the cap off, but it's close, because with a 50/50 mix the boil point at sea level might be above 221??? Research shows that an exact 50/50 mix would result in a 226.8 boil.
Not much wiggle room between 221 & 227 so maybe the cap should be On for the test.
Another possibility for your mystery failure might be that the cap fails to hold pressure. Inspect it carefully and clean out any gunk......then when you do install it screw it on tight.
You may be able to find someone near you that has a radiator pressure tester that has an adapter to fit it?